I have found myself thinking this many times. This mindset provides a pass or green light to ignore the needs of those who may most desperately need our help. This mindset can feel empowering, like being the judge, jury and executioner all in one. It also gives us a clear conscience when our flesh is lazy and unwilling to be bothered.
While I will admit that sometimes, if a person is continually in a situation of needing helped, and helped and helped and time after time find themselves in the same position of need; helping may have become enabling. And that is something different entirely that what I am referring to now.
The idea that someone in need must do something, or a few things, before I find them worthy of my help is contrary to Christ’s example. Jesus said in 3 out of 4 of the Gospels, excluding John, that He didn’t come for those who thought they could help themselves.
Mark 2:17 When Jesus heard this, he told them, “It is not those who are well who need a doctor, but those who are sick. I didn’t come to call the righteous, but sinners.” Also in Luke 5:31 and Matthew 9:12.
We do know that we are all the sick, as none are righteous on our own, at least before the intervening blood of Christ that is. And in our sickness, in our sin, we are incapable of helping ourselves. While we do have to make a decision to accept this free gift of Christ, the work of helping is all on Him. Maybe a person with a physical need that even asks for help has done the same amount of work as a person needing spiritual help that makes the decision to say yes to Jesus.
If we are only willing to help someone who can help themselves, is it not the same as saying, “I only love people who loved me first.” In that we are basing our feelings and actions on someone else making the first move or step or initiating the process, kinda like being tossed and thrown by what others do or don’t do. Christ says in Luke 6:42 and Matthew 5:46 “If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them.
If we are following the example of the Master as we claim, or should be aspiring to, we can’t base our feelings or love or action toward others on what they have earned or deserve from our vantage point. Apart from Christ we are all helpless sinners, who deserve the spoils of our actions, which is eternal judgement based on our sin (Hell). But because Jesus was sent to help those who couldn’t help themselves, we now have what we don’t deserve, we have the Grace and Salvation of Christ, unearned and unmerited, but freely given. Jesus helped us when we couldn’t help ourselves.
The context is John 21:15. Jesus in His third appearance to the disciples tells them again, same as in Luke 5, where to cast the nets if they want to catch any fish. After the nets are nearly blown out from the huge haul, which was the lone highlight to an otherwise sorry excuse for a fishing trip. Peter in his excitement jumps off the boat from about a hundred yards out and swims in to shore to be the first disciple to welcome Jesus. As the rest of the disciples land the boat and drag the overflowing nets in, Jesus has a fish and bread breakfast ready for them, cooked over a charcoal fire. Jesus says, “bring in some of those fish you’ve just caught.” The final count was 153 large fish, and the nets held! After they ate, in what seems to be a private conversation between Jesus and Peter, Jesus asks, “Simon, son of John, do you love me more than these?”
Do you love me more than these…? This is a question that I have heard explained as Jesus asking Peter if he loves Him more than the other disciples did. While I can understand why that may seem to be the question here, especially since Peter said in Matthew 26:33 that even if all the rest of the disciples would fall away he would not. But my two biggest hang ups with this explanation are as follows.
1) Why would Jesus ask Peter a question he couldn’t know the answer to? Peter couldn’t have known the hearts of the other disciples and I don’t think Jesus would ask Peter to pass judgement on fellow disciples who had no need to be corrected or sin issues happening at the moment.
2) The issue of comparison. As believers we are warned against comparing ourselves to others. I can’t see Jesus asking Peter to compare his love for Him to the love of the other disciples. Comparison can lead to sin and motivates us to “one up” other by trying to prove that we love Jesus more than the next guy. Forcing us to comparing our love for Him to others is never the motivation of Jesus.
So what is this question referring to?
The answer comes in the context. After the heart breaking crucifixion and faith restoring resurrection of Christ, it seems that Peter was exasperated. He was tired, drained, wore out, emotionally wrecked. In that mindset, it seems like Peter made a decision to go back to the old life where things were much simpler. He went back to the boat he left behind, saw the old nets sitting there where he left them. Maybe there were some village folks welcoming him, glad to see him back. The idea of it all must have seemed so comfortable and familiar at a time when so much was unsure. In fact, Peter may have been thinking about just going back into the family business and chalking the last 3 years up to “quite an adventure.”
So as Jesus makes His appearance here, and asks Peter to bring some of the fish over, what Jesus may be asking is, Peter, do you love me more than this huge pile of fish, do you love me more than your old boat and nets and the security of the low risk low reward life that you had before. “Simon, son of John, do you love me more than these.” Notice, Jesus is withholding the name He gave him, implying the title of “Peter the rock” was in jeopardy, so instead Jesus calls him by the old name, in his old town doing the his old job. Do you love your old self and life more than you love me? Peter replies with an under whelming, “yes lord, you know I love you.” As Jesus pushed him two more times, Simon, do you love me, Simon, DO YOU LOVE ME? Simon finally, unreliant on emotion or the heat of the moment says, “Lord, you know everything; you know I love you.” Jesus pushed Simon, and finally, Peter stayed calm and cool, he didn’t crack, he didn’t back down and he showed Jesus once and for all, he is the ROCK that Jesus knew he was.
Often when we first come to Christ there is an element of emotion and excitement that will soon wear off. This is when we see if we truly love Christ or if we are casual Christians who would prefer worldly comfort over any kind of difficulty or persecution.
As we follow Christ we come to forks in the road that require us to answer this question, weather its a career, a hobby, worldly temptation or comfort, the easy way out or outright sin, we will be faced with one question…Do you love Christ more that these?
I’m listening to “Jesus Jams” on Pandora.
The book of Colossians starts with a praise by Paul for the church in Colosse for their strong faith and trust in Jesus and love of others. This strength, Paul says, come from their confident hope of their heavenly reservations. Paul says,
For we have heard of your faith in Christ Jesus and your love for all of God’s people, which come from your confident hope of what God has reserved for you in heaven. You have had this expectation ever since you first heard the truth of the Good News.
Colossians 1:4-5 NLT
It’s interesting to me that what Paul attributes their fruitfulness to is their hope. Not their good works, not their wisdom, not their strength, but in their hope of eternity in paradise. Paul uses the next 20 or so verses to talk about this road we all face. The road of life as a Christ follower. Paul gives validation to why we are right to have our ultimate hope in Christ alone; because Christ is supreme and eternal as God is, and that our strength to keep going forward comes from Christ. Paul goes on to say,
But you must continue to believe this truth and stand firmly in it. Don’t drift away from the assurance you received when you heard the Good News. The Good News has been preached all over the world, and I, Paul, have been appointed as God’s servant to proclaim it.
Colossians 1:23 NLT
As if he’s saying, you’re going to be tempted to take an easier road but don’t do it! You’re going to hear all kinds of lies, but don’t believe them! You’re going to have every opportunity to doubt and turn away but don’t, be strong, stand firm and don’t worry or doubt, you’re on the right track!
The life issues we face today are not new to us, they we’re foretold, people have been battling them forever. Jesus knew the road to eternity wouldn’t be easy, but we know that, and we know that Jesus will never leave us. Keep on the road, don’t take the bait to find an easier way. There is only one road to eternal hope and that’s though Christ Jesus. Let your hope be stronger than your doubt.
Then, when our dying bodies have been transformed into bodies that will never die, this Scripture will be fulfilled: “Death is swallowed up in victory. O death, where is your victory? O death, where is your sting? ” For sin is the sting that results in death, and the law gives sin its power. But thank God! He gives us victory over sin and death through our Lord Jesus Christ.
1 Corinthians 15:54-57 NLT
On a day that seemed like anything but “good” at the time, believers of Christ now know this day is the key to our eternal freedom. Without this day, Good Friday, our lives would be anything but “good”. Thank you Lord for your patient loving kindness to us. Thank you not giving me what I deserve. Death has lost it’s power!
God is ever NOW! What do I mean by that…? The God of the universe doesn’t deal is used to’s, or back in my days, He is always now. He is the God of what is. In this passage in Mark 12, the Sadducees were trying to trap Jesus into saying something against the resurrection by asking what they thought was a clever question. The question was about how marriage works in heaven, if a woman married 7 brothers who would be her husband in heaven. In Jesus, cool as a cucumber, fashion He tells the Sadducees that they are mistaken on how heaven works and need to study the scripture, then goes on to say;
“But now, as to whether the dead will be raised—haven’t you ever read about this in the writings of Moses, in the story of the burning bush? Long after Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob had died, God said to Moses, ‘I am the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob.’ So he is the God of the living, not the dead. You have made a serious error.”
Mark 12:26-27 NLT
God doesn’t allow us to die spiritual, we will be eternal, just like Him!! The price Jesus paid on the cross was enough for all of us-for all time, those who came before the cross and those who follow. That’s what Good Friday is all about. We have a God of the living. This reality makes it even more critical that we accept this free gift of salvation made available though Christ’s blood on the cross. We have eternal life ahead, one place or the other.
The Pauline Epistles have a way of hitting home for me. The way Paul describes and simplifies complicated Biblical truth always givings me clarity, peace, understanding and conviction. The ending of Philippians is one of the most convicting for me. Paul is thanking the Church in Philipi for supporting him in his ministry. This is what he says after he thanks them…
I know how to live on almost nothing or with everything. I have learned the secret of living in every situation, whether it is with a full stomach or empty, with plenty or little. For I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength.
Philippians 4:12-13 NLT
At first this seems like a back handed ending to a compliment, a thank you.. but, I would have been fine either way, I appreciate your help but I didn’t really need it…..I don’t think that was Paul’s intent here. I think Paul wanted to use this opportunity to illustrate an important truth. This life is full of highs and lows, feasts and famine, good times and bad. And usually there isn’t much more than a comma or semicolon between them. The nature of life as a human is one of uncertainty, especially if we are committed to a life in service of the Gospel the way Paul was. Most of us are too fearful of the lows to truly be 100% reliant on Christ. Paul didn’t allow fear to stop him. He had the highest highs and the lowest lows. Extemes most of us will never know. But still we have highs and lows and need to find the secret to being content in all of it. Paul says he found the secret to living in any circumstance, it’s full reliance on Christ. We can find this verse on tshirts, hats, window clings and almost everywhere else….”I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me!” Paul isn’t talking about winning a state championship in football or nailing a presentation to the executive board at the office, the way we sometimes use this verse (which is ok). Paul is talking about contentment in any situation, anything that comes Paul gets his strength from Christ and knows Jesus isn’t unaware and hasn’t abandoned him. The same is true for us, no matter where our circumstances may land us, we can know Jesus is already there and He is offering us the strength to get through it.
This word from Paul makes me look at a “bad day” at work for me and realize it’s really not that bad, I’m not truly suffering, I’m not going without and I’m not 100% reliant on Jesus the way I should be. I’m not asking for 39 lashings and ship wrecks but I would like to live my life more reliant on Christ the way Paul did. I can do it and we can do it. We can’t allow fear to stop us.
I’m sure we’ve all heard someone say, “the Bible says not to judge.” Which is true, but it commonly gets taken out of context. The passage is Matthew 7:1-2. “Do not judge others and you will not be judged. For you will be treated as you treat others. The standard you use in judging is the standard by which you will be judged.” What gets left out is what Christ goes on to say in Matthew 7:15, He says, “Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves.” If the Church picks and chooses what verses to hear and apply, we will miss what the true message is. If we aren’t willing to use discernment, aka judgement, to tell if others are true and genuine we will be tossed and thrown around by every new teacher and idea and feel good message that comes along…we have to use judgement! One of the gifts of the Holy Spirit is discernment of spirits (1 Corinthians 12:10).
As followers of Christ we have a responsibility to protect the Body of Christ from false teachers and evil doers. We also have to responsibility to tell a fellow brother or sister in Christ if we see them headed down the wrong path. This also goes back to Matthew 7:3-5. If we have major unrepentant sin in our lives how can we help another believer with their sin. It’s easy to recognize the sin in someone else’s life, but much harder to recognize it in the mirror. Jesus tells us to get our own spiritual lives in order so that we can help other get theirs straight. 1 Corinthians 2:15-16 says Those who are spiritual can evaluate all things, but they themselves cannot be evaluated by others. For “Who can know the Lord’s thoughts? Who knows enough to teach him?” But we understand these things, for we have the mind of Christ. So to say, we don’t allow the world to tell us we’re wrong, or that our faith is misplaced. The world doesn’t have the ability to judge us, they have no moral compass or anchor to base any judgments on. Also, we can’t understand what the Lord is doing, our minds can’t comprehend the plans and purposes He has for us.
It’s important to add, we are not called to judge the heart or motives of other believers, we can’t assume we know their heart. What we can see is their actions and fruit and that is what we can evaluate and help them with. I believe the key to all of this is simple, if we truly love others we will, first, want the best for them and second, let them know gently in love and compassion that they may be headed the wrong way. Jesus was the master of this. He never left someone with scars, He left them with hope. The Holy Spirit will enable us to do the same if we allow Him to.
The passage below is a stern warning from Paul, he says, “with tears in my eyes”….makes it feel like even more than a stern warning. It gives the feeling of desperation and longing to be heard and understood. This desperate desire of Paul that none should perish is the same as Christs, and part of what made him such a powerful evangelist. When was the last time I had tears in my eyes over someone else’s sin?
Philippians 3:18-19 NLT I have told you often before, and I say it again with tears in my eyes, that there are many whose conduct shows they are really enemies of the cross of Christ. They are headed for destruction. Their god is their appetite, they brag about shameful things, and they think only about this life here on earth.
Their god is their appetite. How obvious Paul makes this. When we want, want, want and don’t consultant with God and seek His will, we end up allowing our flesh to run the show, and become enemies of the grace of the cross. Our flesh is our sin nature that we are all born with, it’s the part of us that wants to feel good no matter what, it’s the part of us that is never satisfied with what we have. The flesh will tell us we deserve something or we need it more than they do. The flesh is a master manipulator with in insasable appetite to rule us.
Paul is saying, when we allow our fleshly appetites to be in charge, we will perish, and there are many of us headed down that road. This is something I believe Paul was so passionate about because it closely affected him. Paul had an appite to be right, he came from a past of killing Christians because they didn’t agree with the Jewish law. Our appetite can be for a lot of different things, pride, gluttony, lust, money..fill in the blank.
We all have an appite for something that is leading us away from God. The life we have now isn’t all there is. Don’t mortgage eternity for a cheeseburger today.
Christ expects us to be perfect….Absolutely! He says this not just once, or in passing or as an add on. He makes it clear. James 1:4 tells us to let our endurance grow and when it does we will be perfect and needing nothing. Matthew 5:48 says to be perfect as your Father is perfect. There are other verses as well that state a similar command. Jesus intends for us to be perfect. He is the perfect lamb, He paid the perfect price, and He’s calling us to perfection.
Philippians 3:12-14 NLT I don’t mean to say that I have already achieved these things or that I have already reached perfection. But I press on to possess that perfection for which Christ Jesus first possessed me. No, dear brothers and sisters, I have not achieved it, but I focus on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead, I press on to reach the end of the race and receive the heavenly prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us.
The feeling and thoughts of “good enough” or “I gave it a good try” are common to me. But that is literally the opposite of what Jesus intends for me and you. God didn’t send His perfect, sinless son to die on a cross for us so we could waller in medocrity. Good enough isn’t good enough!
This idea Paul lays out of pressing on, by forgetting the past and looking ahead shows key mindset for life that approaches perfection. All that stuff that I messed up yesterday, the sins that dragged me down yesterday, don’t have power over me anymore. I’m a new creation in Christ, a prefect son or daughter, choosen by the Father to be a perfect reflection of Him. Focused time in the Word to know God more is a good place to start, as well as prayer. But you are to be perfect, as your Father in heaven us perfect. Matthew 5:48
The Bible doesn’t leave a lot of wiggle room with this whole humility thing. I remember my first reaction to the command to be humble….”I’m awesome at humility.” That was seriously my thought. If there was one thing I had, it was humility, and I had it in spades!
It only took a few seconds for the irony of my own thoughts to hit me.
Philippians 2 speaks to what humility really is, and how Christ lived it out.
Philippians 2:5-11 NLT You must have the same attitude that Christ Jesus had. Though he was God, he did not think of equality with God as something to cling to. Instead, he gave up his divine privileges ; he took the humble position of a slave and was born as a human being. When he appeared in human form, he humbled himself in obedience to God and died a criminal’s death on a cross. Therefore, God elevated him to the place of highest honor and gave him the name above all other names, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue declare that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.
Jesus didn’t accidentally or coincidentally have moments of humility. This passage says He gave up His equality with God, He gave up divine privileges, took a humble position and humbled Himself before God. This shows intentionally, it didn’t happen by default. It also paints humility as a lifestyle, something Jesus was, not something He did from time to time. The Bible tells us to be humble and also gives a point of reference to how the Master did it. We have a lot less to give up than Christ did to reach true humility, we don’t have that whole equality with God thing to get over, even though our pride can make us think we’re close.
The close intimate walk with God is one of intentional, regular and repeated humbling of ourselves, the same way Christ did. As we made it regular habit, we will become a humble person instead a person who can be humble.
How many times have I prayed for God to help with the next thing I was trying to do? How often I pray for God to bless these wants and desires I have? The true answer is most of the time. Even something I feel like God has given me a peek into, that is His will for me, I instantly name it and claim it and mutate it to be mine, then I ask God to bless this less perfect and even flawed desire based on something He already had planned. It can be something “righteous” or “good” but its my will not His or at best a modified, changed version of His will that really isn’t even what He had in mind. I was smacked across the face with this revelation this morning. God has good things planned for all of us. And they’re His plans, in His timing, in His ways, not needing my interjection or input. Lord let me do your will! Let your will be my will.